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"Except the Lord build the house, they labour in vain that build it: except the Lord keep the city, the watchman waketh but in vain" (Ps. 127:1 KJV).

Marriages without agape will most assuredly end up in disaster. Couples should always be friends, but you can only build a home on agape. Agape takes time, work, and patience.

Sometimes you can think you're operating in agape when you're not, especially if you've been married a while. For example, in marriage counseling, a wife will sometimes say that she feels as if her husband is putting her down. Then her husband will say, "I don't make her feel like that." Immediately, his is on the defensive. Therefore, he is acting outside of agape love.

You see, in a marriage relationship, it doesn't matter how you feel. It matters how the other person feels. In the above-mentioned hypothetical case, it is the husband's responsibility to find out why his wife feels as if he is putting her down. Then they should talk it out and fix the problem. That is what it means to operate in agape love.

Agape is not automatic. It is something you have to work on. You have to work on seeing your mate as valuable and precious. You even have to work on seeing yourself that way, especially if you were brought up in a home where your parents told you just the opposite.

If you're dating someone brought up in a home where they were called all types of negative names, then that person will have trouble seeing you as valuable and precious. They can't even see themselves as valuable and precious. That person has to work on renewing their mind to love as God loves.

This is good news to you if you are single. You have time on your side. Give that person time and pray that they'll do what is necessary to see themselves as valuable and precious. Timing is everything.

Study reference: Luke 8:15; 21:19; Romans 8:25; 15:4

Copyright © Keith Butler Ministries
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Deborah Butler
Web site: Word of Life Brussells
 
Pastor Deborah L. Butler is the first lady of Word of Faith International Christian Centre located in Southfield, Michigan where she serves in ministry with her husband, Bishop Keith A. Butler. Pastor Deborah is a licensed and ordained minister of the Gospel. Her encouraging, yet down-to-earth teaching imparts wisdom from the Word of God to all that hear her speak. One of Pastor Butler's many duties is serving as the Director of the Women of Virtue Ministry. Pastor Deborah is often called to travel to other ministries to teach and admonish women to walk in the wisdom of God and to experience peace in every area of their lives.
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