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If you were not paid staff, would you choose your church as the one for you and your family to attend? For some of you this is a "no brainer." You love your church, the vision, and your pastor. Rejoice and be thankful. But for some of you reading this article, it just caused a deep sigh or moan.

The purpose of my question is not to cause you pain. However, you are most likely heading down a dead end road that is only going to get worse. You have said for years, "I'm praying this situation will turn around."

Yes, there will be small glimmers of hope. Your enthusiasm is ignited only to then be blown out by your ministry leader or the team around you. Ministry has become a job and a daily grind. Creativity has stopped.

Many are merely living to exist on a daily basis. This situation is not healthy for you, your family, or the church you are attempting to serve. You have made valiant attempts to stay in the game but it may be time for a trade. I have often seen damage done by people clinging on to a ministry position too long after they know it is time for a transition.

We tend to look inside and ask ourselves, "What's wrong with me?" Although it could be as simple as you being the right player who is on the wrong team, it may be that you have fulfilled what you were supposed to accomplish for this assignment and God has another one for you. If you're married, ask your spouse. They typically have seen the need for a change long before we have.

I know, the big question is, "Where will I go, what will I do?" This is what I call the "Tarzan Effect." You have to be willing to let go of the first vine in order to swing to your destiny on the second one. Otherwise you end up being stuck, hanging between your comfortable past and fear of the future. Relax and trust the Spirit of God that is leading you.

I'm always intrigued how God works things out through my personal walk and as I have walked with friends through their transitions. Think about it. Your obedience will have a "domino effect" on churches and ministries you have never heard of.

As you take the next step it opens the door for the next person God has waiting to come in. As one steps out it opens the door for another person to fulfill their position. Are you getting the picture? It goes on and on to effect multiple layers of ministries and churches.

Take some time, dig into your Bible, and rest in His presence to allow His will and direction to be made clear in your life. Remember; never make life-altering decisions when you are in the valleys of life.

Climb out of the difficult situation you are going through first. When you have made it back up on top of the mountain, you are in a much healthier perspective to make a career change. Then, as God directs, take the leap of faith.

Dean Hawk Ministries
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Dean Hawk
Web site: The Rock Family Church
 
Dean and Kim are the founding pastors of Rock Family Church. They have been married since 1983 and they have five adult children; Alesha and her husband, Aaron, Allyson, and Preston and his wife, Melannie. In addition, they have one grandson, Asher. Since 1981 Dean has served in the full-time ministry. Prior to starting RFC in 2004, he served as a Youth and Associate Pastor in three different churches. You will enjoy Dean's practical and illustrative teaching style as he makes the Bible come alive through both topical and verse-by-verse teachings that you can apply to everyday life. Along with his current pastoral duties, Dean is also an adjunct professor at Charis Bible College in Woodland Park. Kim serves on our Executive Team as CFO, she oversees the Children's Team and the Women's Ministry. Her energetic and contagious attitude, in addition to her love for her church family is evident. Be sure and introduce yourself, they can always be found in the lobby between services. They look forward to meeting you soon!
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