Kissers & Clingers

by Jesse Duplantis | Valentine's Day

St. Valentine’s Day has grown to symbolize the world’s view of love—kisses, chocolate candy, romantic music, poems and pledges of devotion. It represents love’s softest, most gentle side. It’s sweet but not too strong.

In reality, nothing could be further from the truth. St. Valentine was a Roman priest and physician who clung to his love for Jesus Christ in spite of persecution by Emperor Claudius Gothicus. It cost him his reputation. It cost him his career. It cost him his livelihood. Ultimately, when he refused to recant, it cost him his life.

The test of true love is not what is gained but what you are willing to give.

So what is the difference between carnal, worldly love, and strong, Godly love? It’s the difference between being a kisser and a clinger. I discovered this while reading the first chapter of the book of Ruth. Notice verse 14,

And they lifted up their voice, and wept again: and Orpah kissed her mother-in-law; but Ruth clave unto her.
Ruth 1:14

Orpah was a kisser. Ruth was a clinger. Orpah kissed the woman, wept tears and said, “I love you!” See emotionalism? That’s religion for you.

But Ruth was a clinger. She knew that Naomi served the Living God, and she was determined to live among His children. Ruth put her past behind her. She left her home. She left her family. She left her country. Her love wasn’t weak. She didn’t know what the future held, but she was willing to pay any price.

The kisser, Orpah, is a perfect representation of the religious individual who walks into church crying, “I give up everything!” They are willing to give up their own plans until the past begins to pull on them. Then suddenly, the past has more allure than the plan God has for their future.

It’s possible to go a long way toward Christianity and not be a Christian. Sadly, many people who go to church are not saved and have never met Jesus. They don’t understand Jesus, because Jesus wasn’t a kisser. Judas was a kisser. Jesus was a clinger.

Orpah acted like Ruth. She did everything Ruth did. She wept, she bawled, she squalled and she walked out of the city with her mother-in-law just like Ruth did. But, there came a point in time when it was evident that this was emotional religion. She hadn’t had a vital change. She was a kisser. After that parting, Orpah’s name was never mentioned in the Bible again.

Ruth clung to Naomi because she had made up her mind. ‘I’m going to embrace this God, Jehovah. I may not understand all His ways, but I will accept them. I will live for Him.’

You see, her affections were set on things above. It is not what you say with your mouth but what you are willing to do with your life that makes you a clinger. A clinger is one who has totally surrendered to God. I’m not talking about a hasty resolution. God is not interested in rash promises. He is interested in a love so complete that it forgets those things that are behind.

Ruth turned her back on her past and moved forward with God. In those days, it was unthinkable for a Moabite to be in the Jewish race. Yet, God accepted her and used her in the lineage of the Messiah. Why? Because she was a clinger.

I see a lot of kissers. They embrace the Gospel only for what they can get out of it, and they end up with nothing.

I have also known many great men and women of God who were clingers. They embraced the Gospel because of the love of Jesus. They embrace the Gospel because of the love of Jesus, and some are walking the streets of Heaven today because they clung to the Gospel of Jesus Christ and were obedient to his plan for their future.

What about you? Have you determined in your heart to cling to God no matter lies what ahead?

Give it all up and cling to Jesus.

That’s true love.

Jesse Duplantis Ministries
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Jesse Duplantis, minister of the Gospel, motivational speaker, television personality, and best-selling author, has been in full-time ministry since 1976 and is the founder of Jesse Duplantis Ministries, located in the Greater New Orleans area of south Louisiana in the United States of America. With over four decades of sharing his unique blend of humor and faith around the world, generations of believers have been inspired by his messages and countless numbers have come to know Jesus Christ as Savior through his ministry.

Known for his unflinching, status-quo-breaking messages and humorous take on experiences in the life of the believer, Jesse continues to draw large audiences of believers through social media, television, and meetings held around the world. With speaking engagements booked years in advance, Jesse Duplantis continues to keep an intense traveling schedule, flying throughout the United States and the world preaching the Gospel of Jesus Christ. With no booking agents pursuing meetings for him and no set fees imposed upon churches for speaking engagements, Jesse chooses his outreach meetings based on the same two criteria he always has: invitations that come in and prayer over each one. This uncommon way of scheduling in today’s world means Jesse’s many followers may find him speaking in some of the largest churches and venues in America and the world, as well as a great many small and growing congregations, too. No church is too big or small for the Holy Spirit, as he says.

Side by side with his wife Cathy Duplantis, the co-founder and chief of staff of Jesse Duplantis Ministries and the senior pastor of Covenant Church in Destrehan, Louisiana, Jesse continues to fulfill his life’s calling by daily taking up the Great Commission of Jesus Christ: “Go ye into all the world, and preach the Gospel to every creature” (Mark 16:15). Through social media, television broadcasts, books, and other ministry products, as well as through many evangelistic meetings, the JDM website, the JDM app, and Voice of the Covenant magazine, Jesse Duplantis continues to see growth in his ministry and expand each year while maintaining his roots. Jesus is the center of his life. The salvation of lost people and the growth of believers is the purpose of his ministry. And for both he and his wife, every day is another day to “Reach People and Change Lives, One Soul at a Time.”

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